Monthly Archives: July 2025
Why It Takes Time to Heal
“Why can’t you just get over it?” “It happened so long ago, quit hanging on to it!” “Aren’t you through with that yet?” These are all things that have been said to me when I have been open about my … Continue reading
Survivors of an Invisible War
I am moved to think about my personal hell of sexual violence and physical violence as a collective trauma. Sexual violence is a collective trauma where the victims find each other by chance, through recovery groups, music, or art. It … Continue reading